. . . I'm really getting fed up with our puritanical obsession about sexual matters. I'm talking about Gov. Mark Sandford. In my opinion, the only thing he did that's worth taking him to task over was leaving for Argentina without leaving someone in charge while he was out. That's just plain stupid and irresponsible.
But what's making news - of course - is the affair.
This is why I have so much difficulty with the GOP. Was he wrong to have an affair? Was he wrong to cheat on his wife? Was he wrong in trying to conceal it from everyone?
The answer is: who the heck knows? If you are married or have been in any kind of serious relationship, you know that the only people who know what's going on in that relationship are the two persons involved in it. They - and, unfortunately, the kids - will have to deal with this issue. It's an intensely personal matter that does not belong in the public arena. Period.
If you want him to quit because he flaked out, went to Argentina, and didn't leave anyone in charge, I'm OK with that. Love may make you do stupid things, but if you're a governor, you can't afford to do dumb stuff like that for love, money, or anything else.
But if you just think it's immoral that he's running around having an affair and it offends your sensibilities, remember this:



He can say whatever he wants, and he can be boycotted, there are responsibilities for your actions.